How To Meditate Better With Biohacking

How To Meditate Better With Biohacking

Key Points:

  • Everyone starts off not really knowing how to meditate. There really isn’t a right or wrong way to meditate but there are ways to help you mediate more efficiently. 
  • Supporting your mitochondria helps deepen your meditation, and computer-assisted meditation can help you see (and hear!) what your brain is doing so that you can know for sure whether it’s working or not. 
  • There are ways to access deep meditative states and get the full benefits of meditation without having to meditate for years. 

Learning how to meditate can feel daunting if you’re a beginner. People have been meditating throughout history, and for good reason. Meditation rewires the circuitry in your brain, and the changes come with loads of benefits, like reduced stress, increased self-awareness, and improved health. 

Here are some biohacking tips to help you get the most out of your meditation practice.

Mitochondria and Meditation

Think of your mitochondria as the battery packs of your cells. They are responsible for manufacturing energy for your body in the form of ATP. They also have the job of deciding where to allocate energy in your body.  

When your mitochondria are strong, you feel awake and alert, and your body works. When they don’t have what they need to power you, you feel slow in your body and mind. Dysfunctional mitochondria can lead to brain fog, accelerated aging, and chronic diseases. 

Your mitochondria power everything, including your meditation. You may think of meditation as a time to turn off, but your neurons have an incredibly active role in getting your brain waves into the beneficial state of deep meditation. In order to do what they need to do, neurons burn through a ton of energy — that your mitochondria provide. 

Learning how to meditate and getting into a meditation groove is easier when your mitochondria are happy. Here are some ways to keep them in a high-performing state: 

Avoid kryptonite (aka energy zappers)

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Kryptonite is anything that makes you weak. Your mitochondria are powerful in the sense that they create energy for your whole body, but they’re vulnerable to less-than-optimal conditions. 

To maximize what your mitochondria can do, practice these habits: 

  • Avoid junk food. Your mitochondria are especially susceptible to toxic substances floating around your cells. If you’re eating well-sourced, real food, there’s less for your mitochondria to spend energy resisting so they can make energy for you. 
  • Seek out sunlight. It goes without saying that artificial lights emit wavelengths that do not match the ones that come from the sun. This type of artificial light is known as “junk light”. Your mitochondria don’t do well under this light. They thrive when they’re exposed to natural light. Early in the day, sunlight on your skin can energize you for hours. Later in the day, blue wavelengths can disrupt your mitochondria and circadian rhythm, and mess with your sleep. Wearing junk-light filtering glasses like the ones from True Dark can make a huge difference in your sleep quality. Speaking of sleep…. 
  • Get good sleep. Lack of sleep damages mitochondria. Here’s how to clean up your sleep habits. 
  • Minimize your toxins. Toxic substances like heavy metals and mold toxins don’t just interfere with mitochondria — they reduce the total number of mitochondria you have, and that messes with your energy and focus. Avoid toxins by following a low toxin diet (like the Bulletproof diet), filtering your air and water, and being mindful about the household products you use.  

Incorporate high-intensity interval training

Man working out with dumbbells

Movement is good for your mitochondria. High-intensity interval training (HIIT) is a great exercise technique to strengthen them. Studies show HIIT increases mitochondrial function after just two weeks. You can also do REHIT, which is an advanced form of HIIT. Learn more here. 

Add good fats

Your mitochondria work better when they have a steady supply of fuel. Stable saturated fats like those found in grass fed butter, ghee, and beef tallow help your mitochondria thrive. Studies show that C8 MCT oil, which is another powerful saturated fat, increases mitochondrial biogenesis. Stay away from processed seed and vegetable oils which wreak havoc on your mitochondria and your metabolism.  

Tools that make meditation easier

Technological advances have made it possible to determine whether or not you’ve achieved a meditative state. Whether you’re a newbie or a Zen Master, you’ll find benefits to measuring your progress and tracking it over time. Try these tools to help improve your meditation techniques. 

Meditation apps

If you’re looking for a little guidance while you meditate, then meditation apps are a great option. Some offer a simple timer, allowing you to choose how long you meditate for, while others give you guided meditations. Learn more about the best meditation apps on the market here. 

Heart Rate Variability (HRV)

Your heart doesn’t beat in perfect rhythm, and how much your heartbeat varies is a good indicator of your mental and emotional wellbeing. Heart rate variability (HRV) training teaches you to consciously control those variations in your heartbeat, which can influence how you feel on a daily basis and how you respond to stressors or uncomfortable emotions. It can also tell you how your nervous system responds to meditation. The overall goal is to train your nervous system to chill out when you want it to. Learn more about heart rate variability and how to train it here. 

Meditation Trackers/Tech

Meditation headbands, like Muse, offer real-time feedback on how your meditation is going, second by second. When Muse senses that your mind is busy, it plays sounds of heavy winds. When your mind is quiet, it plays calm, gentle winds. 

While you meditate, Muse logs what it senses. You can use this information to quantify your ability to calm yourself and focus. That way, you can track your progress over time and stay motivated. 

Meditation Without Meditating

Regular meditation practice is essential for high performance. However, most who sit down to meditate find themselves face-to-face with their busy, distracted mind – and that can evoke a lot of agitation and discomfort. 

What if there were secrets to getting the benefits of years of meditation in just a matter of days and with a lot less effort? 

Neurofeedback at 40 Years of Zen

If you’ve never heard of neurofeedback before, it involves attaching electrode sensors to your head which transmit signals to a computer (it’s completely painless). Then you consciously work on your brain while receiving real-time feedback from the computer. The goal of neurofeedback is to make your brain work better by training it to be self-aware.   

40 Years of Zen is like neurofeedback on steroids. It’s a 5-day immersive program designed to give you the benefits of 40 years of meditation in a matter of days. You can learn more at 40yearsofzen.com 

Read Heavily Meditated

In Heavily Meditated, Dave Asprey teaches you how to get the full benefits of meditation in the fraction of the time and effort of traditional meditation. You’ll learn the most effective techniques, including ones you probably have never heard of before, as well as the science behind why those techniques work. You’ll learn how to access altered states with your breath, how to reset your entire nervous system so past traumas and triggers no longer hold you back, and so much more. This book will change your life.  

Conclusion

In Game Changers, most of the high-performing people that were interviewed credited meditation as one of their most important and impactful hacks. 

Why? 

Because meditation teaches you a process for switching out of mental chatter and compulsive busyness into the freedom and ease of a deeper dimension of you, called “being” or “presence”. Whether you use a meditation app, incorporate the techniques from Heavily Meditated, go to 40 Years of Zen, or just meditate using your own style, you’re rewiring your brain to become happier, less stressed and more resilient.  

The Ultimate Beginner’s Guide to Hormones

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  • Hormones affect everything you do — how you feel, how you grow into an adult, whether or not you reach for a second muffin, whether you can control your emotions.
  • Hormones are the chemical messengers that spring your cells into action, telling them what to do, how to do it, and when.
  • Keep reading to learn about some of the more important hormones that commonly go off-kilter, and what you can do to reset them.

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Hormones affect everything you do — how you feel, how you grow into an adult, whether or not you reach for a second muffin, how well you control your emotions…the list goes on.

Hormones are the chemical messengers that spring your cells into action. Think of hormones as the waiters who write orders for the kitchen, and your cells as the kitchen staff who fulfill these orders. Hormones tell cells what to do, and how to do it.

The total number of hormones you have is unclear — some of your body’s chemicals are difficult to classify. Scientists say you have somewhere between 48 and 59 hormone receptors, which are the “on” switches that tell your cells what to do,[ref url=”https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0168952501024179″] and the number will likely keep shifting as researchers learn more and more about what your body chemicals do. Keep reading to learn about some of the more important hormones that commonly go off-kilter, and what you can do to reset them.

Hunger, satiety, and metabolism hormones

For decades, dieters believed that they were at odds with calories. That’s only part of the story. Hunger, satiety (how full you feel), and metabolism hormones have a much larger impact on whether or not you’ll lose weight, maintain, or get fat.

Leptin

You have a hormone called leptin that signals you to stop eating.[ref url=”https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2670357/”] Leptin links up with proteins in your bloodstream to tell your brain how much you ate and whether you have enough nutrients to stop eating food for now.

Leptin also regulates your metabolism and tells your body how much energy to expend (i.e. how many calories to burn).[ref url=”https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2670357/”] If you’ve eaten enough and your leptin hormone is working properly, it tells your thyroid to make lots of thyroid hormone and ramp up your metabolism. That’s great news for your energy levels.

If you’re either starving or your leptin isn’t working (due to leptin resistance), it will tell your thyroid to put the brakes on making thyroid hormone. That makes you save energy, but you’re tired, it’s hard to think, and you store those calories as fat instead of burning them.

The key is to have proper leptin sensitivity, and you can control that by eating the right types of foods. Here’s how to reset your leptin with diet.

Ghrelin, the hunger hormone

Ghrelin is your “hunger hormone,” the hormone that your stomach and intestines release when it’s time to eat. Researchers found that ghrelin injections caused people to eat 28% more.[ref url=”http://physrev.physiology.org/content/85/4/1131″]

To keep your ghrelin stable, make sure you’re keeping carbs low and getting enough protein and vegetable fiber. Here’s what you need to know about ghrelin.

Cholecystokinin (CCK), the satiety hormone

Your intestines release a hormone called cholecystokinin (CCK) after you eat, which is another hormone that tells your body that you’re full. Researchers have found that injecting people with CCK made them eat less.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18469245?dopt=Abstract&holding=npg”]

Right after losing a substantial amount of weight, your intestines secrete less CCK. So, you feel less full after meals, even if you ate the same amount before you lost weight. That’s how cravings and binges are born. Read this article to find out how being in ketosis works with CCK to prevent overeating. If you don’t want to go full keto, having a low-carb, high-fat breakfast can help keep cravings at bay all day.[ref url=”https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/30968140″]

Insulin

When you taste food, your pancreas starts producing the hormone insulin to help your cells accept fuel. When you eat, your body breaks carbs down into glucose, or sugar. Glucose goes into your bloodstream and on to cells to fuel them. Insulin is the hormone that helps glucose get into your cells. The glucose your cells don’t use gets stored in the muscles and liver as glycogen, and once they’re at capacity, you start storing it as fat.

When your insulin production and insulin sensitivity works well, your cells get the energy they need and you don’t store fat. If you enter a state of insulin resistance, meaning your cells don’t get the signal to accept glucose, it stays in your bloodstream and your body stores it as fat. This article has everything you need to know about insulin resistance and how to reverse it.

Thyroid Hormones (T3, T4)

Your thyroid gland produces hormones that regulate:

  • How fast you burn energy
  • Heart rate
  • Digestion
  • Reproductive health and sex drive

When thyroid hormones are off, you feel it. Too much thyroid hormone can lead to racing heart, anxiety, fine tremors in your hands, sweating and feeling hot, and more. Not enough will lead to low blood pressure, fatigue, weakness, puffiness, and more. Here’s everything you need to know about your thyroid.

Sex hormones: estrogen, progesterone, testosterone

Estrogen

Estrogens include estriol, estradiol, and estrone — the hormones that control development and maintenance of female characteristics.

Because of all of the chemicals in your environment that mimic estrogen, you’ve likely heard concern about estrogen dominance as a growing problem. Read this to learn about healthy estrogen, what excess estrogen does, and how to balance your hormones.

Progesterone

The word “progesterone” can be diced into “promoting gestation” because it’s a major player in fetal development. With insufficient progesterone, a fertilized egg won’t implant, and if implantation is successful, women cannot sustain a pregnancy without enough progesterone.

Progesterone opposes estrogen — meaning, it blocks the effects of estrogen, which helps regulate how much influence estrogen has on your body. Fluctuating progesterone leads to irregular menstrual periods, PMS, menopausal symptoms, and even cancer.

If you think your progesterone levels may be off, the only way to know for sure is to get blood testing. In the meantime, you can try these natural solutions to balance your hormones.

If you are looking to purchase progesterone, you can check out Plat Wellness’ progesterone product.

Testosterone

Testosterone isn’t just weight room fodder — it plays a prominent role in how you feel throughout life, especially as you age. Men produce testosterone in the testes, women produce a smaller amount in the ovaries, and both genders make a small amount of testosterone in the adrenal glands. Testosterone is a steroid hormone that controls things like:

  • Development of male sex organs and deepening of the voice during puberty
  • Production of sperm
  • Skin and hair
  • Heart health
  • Bone density
  • Fat storage
  • Moods

In both men and women, testosterone production declines as you age. A lot of the time, low testosterone goes unaddressed because initial symptoms are the ones doctors associate with normal aging — decreased sex drive, weight gain, weaker muscles, etc. You’d do yourself a disservice to think of it that way. Supplementing with replacement levels of testosterone can benefit your heart, bones, moods, and more.

Taking steroids to bulk up isn’t the same thing as taking replacement levels of testosterone. Here are the details on the signs of low testosterone and what to do about it.

Stress hormones

Cortisol

Your adrenal glands (small glands that sit on top of your kidneys) produce cortisol when you wake up in the morning, when you exercise, and when you’re under stress. Cortisol has a wide range of functions in your body, including:

  • Regulates blood sugar
  • Influences learning and memory
  • Controls electrolyte balance
  • Responds to energy need and regulates metabolism

When you have the right amount, these processes work well. Chronic stress, either from emotional stress that you’re aware of, or low-level stress from toxic exposures or eating foods you don’t tolerate, causes your adrenals to go into overdrive and make too much cortisol. After a while, your adrenals can burn out and you end up having cortisol fluctuations that spell trouble for your body.

Conventional doctors typically do not recognize or diagnose adrenal fatigue or adrenal burnout. “Common symptoms of adrenal fatigue that patients complain of — exhaustion, brain fog, lack of motivation, severe sugar cravings, etc. — can be attributed to or caused by other diseases. If blood testing shows hormone levels are within normal range, i.e., neither failure (Addison’s Disease) or overproduction (Cushing’s disease), mainstream doctors are unlikely to diagnose someone with failure of homeostasis,” says physician-scientist and New York Times bestselling author of “Brain Body Diet” Dr. Sara Gottfried, MD.

Too much cortisol can cause things like mood disorders including depression, low sex drive, weight gain, blood sugar fluctuations, irregular menstrual cycles, and so much more. When cortisol is too low, you may experience fatigue, weight loss, weakness, and low motivation.

“Resetting your cortisol level and healing your control system often requires considerable diet and lifestyle interventions. Doctors are woefully unequipped to offer advice of this kind. They are loathe to diagnose a health issue when they lack a solution to give to their patients. That’s where we, as early adopters, have an opportunity to step in and provide the clinical research base and evidence to propose an alternative,” says Gottfried

If you’re wondering how your adrenals are doing, read this article on adrenal fatigue and open up a conversation with your doctor about testing.

Dr. Gottfried recommends getting a DUTCH test for the most comprehensive picture of how your adrenals are doing. “It provides the cortisol level over the course of the day, at four points (usually upon awakening, before lunch and dinner, and before bed). Dried urine also provides free and metabolized cortisol, which I find to be clinically helpful, especially in patients with normal serum cortisol. I can measure cortisol awakening response in dried urine, which I use clinically for patients with mood disorders like depression.”

Adrenaline

Aim for Short Bursts of High Intensity Exercise Instead_man running Adrenaline another adrenal hormone that you feel during your fight-or-flight response to stress. When you spot an alligator nearby, when you’re walking through a sketchy parking lot, or when you have to give a big presentation at work, you feel the effects of adrenaline — increased heart rate, faster breathing, hyper-vigilance. Behind the scenes, you’re burning carbohydrates faster.

Adrenaline prepares your muscles to engage and shuts down a lot of other body functions to pour all of your energy into either running for your life or fighting for your life. One of the more noticeable functions that slows down is digestion. Some people get diarrhea when they’re nervous — that’s because adrenaline stops digestion before the process is complete. You won’t notice everything that slows down, like your immune system.

If your stress response activates too much, you’ll end up with a compromised immune system, digestive troubles, mood disorders, brain fog, and more.

Also, if you’re high stress, you could be adrenaline dominant. To learn more about that, you can listen to this episode of Bulletproof Radio with adrenaline expert Dr. Michael Platt. If you’re stressed, take steps to get your stress under control today.

Reading this article is a start, but the world of hormones is vast and complex. Even the most highly trained specialists don’t know everything there is to know about hormones and how they work together. Supporting your hormones is a lifelong process. Eating foods that feed you on a cellular level, keeping your stress at bay, lowering your inflammation, and getting outside and moving every day will balance your body better than you would expect. You might need to call in the professionals depending on your situation, but these four things will have a remarkable effect on how you feel, due in large part to your hormones approaching balance.

 

The Biohacker’s Guide to Better Sex

Disclaimer: this article talks about sex, porn, orgasms, French maids, penis size, and about a dozen other things you probably don’t want your boss to see you reading. Proceed with caution.

Sex is one of the most powerful drives you have. It’s tough to hack it – but it’s also very satisfying. Depending on who you are, you can benefit from having more sex, from having less sex, from boosting your sex drive or from calming down an overactive libido.

This article will take you through the different approaches to improving your sex life, mastering your sex drive, and showing your how you can take your sex life to the next level.

Take a look at your libido

Low Libido - Try These Science-Backed Ways to Boost Your Sex Drive_header_couple in bed Your libido is your sex drive — how often you think about sex throughout the day. There are things that can make you lose interest in sex, like hormonal imbalances, aging, stress, medications, and more. If your drive is strong, it’s hard to fathom that something that’s always been there for you could be so fragile. If you have low libido, it’s hard to imagine reawakening your interest in sex.

Losing your sex drive isn’t a small matter. Everyone deserves a great sex life, for your own satisfaction and to keep your relationship strong. Sex is an integral part of being human.

You can read this article to find out what’s going on with your sex drive and how to make it stronger, and here’s a guided meditation for better sex.

Get off porn

how does melatonin work as sleep aid The Internet is a wild and woolly place. A click of the mouse gives you access to millions of naked, improbably attractive people doing any sexual act you can imagine, no matter how crazy. And you can switch to a new person whenever you want.

That’s a lot of intense, rapid-fire sexual gratification. It’s also a lot of dopamine flooding into your brain — likely more than you can handle.

Dopamine is a neurotransmitter that plays a huge role in addiction, and the problem is that your brain isn’t equipped to handle that kind of stimulation.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3960020/”][ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3050060/”] It responds to porn much like it does to cocaine or alcohol – a big rush of pleasure, with diminishing returns over time.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3960020/”][ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3050060/”] And as with addictive drugs, porn seems to cause tolerance. In a survey of 434 people, half of them eventually began watching porn they used to consider disgusting or unappealing.[ref url=”http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0747563215302612″] They turned to more intense scenarios to get aroused.

A good theory is that the more you watch porn, the more stimulation you need to turn you on. Seems likely – regular porn users have smaller, less responsive reward pathways,[ref url=”http://archpsyc.jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?articleid=1874574″] and a study found that 60% of men who watch porn regularly couldn’t get erect with a real partner, while they did with porn.[ref url=”http://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0102419″]

In other words: when you’re used to watching three French maids in a room together, the thought of sex with your partner may stop being enough to excite you. Quitting porn can reset your arousal and get you back in touch with real, intimate sex.

Not convinced that porn is that big a deal? Try ditching it for a month. It might be more difficult than you expect.

Focus on fun, not finishing

In an episode of Bulletproof Radio, Eli Block, lead orgasmic meditation instructor at OneTaste, talks about changing the way most people view sex.

“The standard expectation with sex is a beginning, middle, and (most prominently) an end: foreplay, penetration, and climax, with climax as the goal (ideally, according to this progression, for both partners),” he explains.

That formula has a couple shortcomings. The first is that it makes sex repetitive. You’re doing the same thing every time, which can become less and less rewarding. The second issue is setting climax as a goal. Focus on getting to the end, and you tend to miss out on the buildup. It also sets up an expectation, which means you can “fail” if you or your partner doesn’t get there. That’s a fast track to shame and performance anxiety problems that can last well beyond your session.

Taking away the goal of orgasm gets you out of your head. It frees you up to focus on the connection between you and your partner. With that comes more oxytocin, more bonding, more fulfilling sex, and more unpredictability. You go with what feels right, instead of a generic prescription for what sex “should be.” Each time is unique, and the sex itself becomes just as pleasurable as climaxing.

Drop your goals and enjoy the moment. It makes sex much better.

Boost your sex drive with maca

Maca is a Peruvian root that grows on the barren slopes of the Andes, where not much else can grow. Researchers still aren’t sure why maca works, but studies show that it’s a potent aphrodisiac.

In one study, researchers gave 57 men either 1.5g maca, 3g maca, or placebo daily. Participants in both maca groups reported heightened sexual desire.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/12472620″]

Research in both men[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18801111″] and women[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/25954318″] found that 3g of maca daily counters decreased libido from taking antidepressants. In men, maca also increases sperm count and motility[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11753476″] and can reverse mild erectile dysfunction.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19260845″]

Always use gelatinized (cooked) maca. You have trouble digesting the raw version and won’t get the same benefits from it. Take 3g daily, blended into your morning coffee, or take an extract. Here’s a more in-depth look at maca.

You can get more information on maca root here.

Orgasm more, if you’re a woman

natural ways to treat PMS and PMDD Good news, ladies: orgasms are great for your biology. They support your hormones and relieve stress. In an episode of Bulletproof Radio, guest Naomi Whittel says that women need to have 200 orgasms per year to be healthy.

Orgasm floods your system with estrogen[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19138375″] and oxytocin.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3782434″][ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3183515/”] Oxytocin has earned the nickname “the love molecule” because it fosters social bonding, trust, relaxation, and generosity.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3183515/”] A lot of that buzzy, warm afterglow you get with your partner post-sex is thanks to oxytocin.

Estrogen enhances oxytocin, too.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8713972″] The two work in synergy when you orgasm, creating a cocktail of feel-good bonding and relaxation. On top of that comes a drop in cortisol, which relieves even more stress, and an increase in serotonin, which boosts your mood.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/11734697″]

Basically, if you’re a woman, orgasm supports your hormones and makes you happier. Lucky you.

Just for fun, here’s a guide to better orgasms.

Orgasm less if you’re a man, aka semen retention

Man inhaling during meditation practice Guys, we got the short end of the evolutionary stick here. Men get a much sharper increase in prolactin after ejaculating – that’s what extinguishes your drive and makes you want to take a nap post-sex.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15889301″] Men also get a larger post-ejaculatory dip in dopamine, which explains why a lot of us feel a little down or even depressed after the act.

Men benefit from ejaculating less, a practice known as semen retention. Not too fun from a pleasure standpoint, but it presents a powerful opportunity for biohacking.

Controlling how often you climax can also lead to unprecedented motivation. Back when I was doing one-on-one coaching, a client of mine made a deal with his wife that he wouldn’t ejaculate until he made $100,000 – a whole lot of money for him, at the time. He was $100,000 richer in under 30 days. His ambition and productivity went through the roof. He credits his success to abstaining.

I had a similar increase in motivation. I tried three different ejaculatory control experiments:

The Taoist equation

Ancient Chinese Taoism has an equation for “optimal sexual power:”

(Age – 7)/4 = X

Plug in your age. The number you get for X is the number of days you should go between ejaculations. A 39-year-old man, for example, would ejaculate every 8 days.

I followed this equation for several weeks, tracking my perceived quality of life and sex drive. Both were significantly higher when I was only climaxing every 8 days.

Ways to make ejaculatory control easier

  1. Heart rate variability training. Heart rate variability (HRV) training teaches you to consciously control your parasympathetic nervous system, which lets you regulate your fight-or-flight response. It’s a great way to control all of your impulses — anger, panic, and sexual gratification, and others.
  2. Join the NoFap community on Reddit. It’s full of people who are off porn and masturbation. There are also a lot of good stories about how people’s lives have changed when they limit their orgasms. There’s even a panic button add-on for your web browser that you can use to stay strong when the urge hits you.

The 30-day challenge

Go a full month without ejaculating. Have as much sex as you want, with yourself or with a partner. Just stop before you finish.

This one is extremely difficult to do. I also got the most noticeable benefits from it. I saw the highest increase in life satisfaction, my sex drive went through the roof, and I was phenomenally productive. I also got a LOT more attention from women, both my wife and otherwise, although I didn’t track it because I wasn’t expecting it.

30-day challenge: Monk Mode

Go a full month with no sexual stimulation at all. Don’t even touch it.

Abstinence for 3 weeks increases testosterone in healthy men [17]. Which is good, considering average testosterone for us guys has been dropping by about 1% per year for the last 30 years.[ref url=”http://press.endocrine.org/doi/abs/10.1210/jc.2006-1375″] Sex (not orgasm) increases testosterone by up to 72%.[ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/1529008″][ref url=”http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21165688″] Sex-related thoughts boost it too. I had a lot more of both when I abstained – my sex drive was off the charts.

Abstinence can also lead to greater life satisfaction and, oddly, more attention from women. No studies for these, but there is a lot of personal and anecdotal evidence.

The normal 30-day challenge is tough. This one is much, much harder. I don’t recommend it unless you’re looking for an exceptional test of willpower. With monk mode, I still got happier and more productive as the 30 days went on, but the increase was smaller than it was with the normal 30-day challenge. I also saw shrinkage. About 20%. Use it or lose it? Fortunately, the length came back when I started having sex again.

I don’t recommend Monk Mode if you’re in a relationship unless your partner wants to test his or her willpower, too. It’s not nice to force this kind of experiment on someone you love.

Or, go in the other direction: have more sex

Sex and the hormones that sex produces has loads of benefits. It improves things like:

  • Sleep
  • Stress
  • Brain function
  • Heart heatlh
  • Intimacy
  • Mood

The list goes on. You can get the details on the benefits of sex here.[ref url=”https://daveasprey.com/benefits-sex/”] Also, sex produces hormones that raise your libido naturally (sex begets sex) so you and your partner can do a 7-day sex challenge to fire up your engines.

The key to biohacking your sex life is knowing where you stand today. Is your sex drive too high? Do you have low libido? Would you benefit from extra time with your honey, or from flexing your willpower muscle? You have some tools to try out. See which ones improve your sex life and your everyday life.

 

Petting a Dog or Cat For Just 10 Minutes Lowers Stress, Finds Study

If you’re a pet owner, then you know that cuddling with your dog or cat gives you all the feels. It can also lower stress, according to a new study published by the American Educational Research Association.

Researchers at Washington State University found that petting and playing with a dog or cat for just 10 minutes significantly lowered cortisol (the stress hormone).

As part of the study, 249 college students were divided into four groups. The first group got to interact directly with dogs and cats for 10 minutes. The second group got to observe others petting the animals, while the third group watched a slideshow of the same animals. The fourth group was “waitlisted” and told to wait quietly for their turn.

The researchers collected a number of salivary samples from each student, starting in the morning when they woke up. The students who had direct contact with the dogs and cats showed significantly less cortisol in their saliva after the interaction. 

“We already knew that students enjoy interacting with animals, and that it helps them experience more positive emotions,” says lead author Patricia Pendry, an associate professor in WSU’s Department of Human Development. “What we wanted to learn was whether this exposure would help students reduce their stress in a less subjective way. And it did, which is exciting because the reduction of stress hormones may, over time, have significant benefits for physical and mental health.”

Pendry and her team are conducting further research, looking at the impact of a four-week-long animal-assisted stress prevention program.

If you’re looking for other ways to ease stress, check out this definitive guide to stress management. 

 

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