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Why Dirty Keto Is Stalling Your Weight Loss and What to Do About It

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  • “Dirty keto” helps you drop weight fast, but the weight loss quickly plateaus.
  • On dirty keto, it doesn’t matter where your fats, proteins, and carbs come from, so processed foods are on the menu. But they cause inflammation, and inflammation causes weight gain.
  • Load up on organic vegetables, grass-fed meats, and high-quality fats to keep inflammation down and your gut thriving.
  • Other tips if you’re not losing weight on keto: Try a cyclical ketosis diet and do a protein fast once a week.

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When you first switch to a low-carb, high-fat diet, you typically drop weight fast. That’s what happened to me. I lost 50 pounds in three months when I first went keto (we called it Atkins back then). I was eating pork rinds. I was eating lots of cheese. And I was eating and drinking anything that wasn’t a carb, including diet soda. The weight loss was great, but it quickly stalled, and here’s why: When you don’t pay attention to where your food comes from, you run into problems.

The way I was eating is now known as dirty keto. The diet follows the same breakdown of fats, protein, and carbs as regular keto, but with one key difference: you can get those macronutrients from anywhere. So instead of eating organic scrambled eggs with avocado for breakfast, you might reach for a fast food sausage and cheese breakfast sandwich, minus the bun.

What happens when you go down that dirty keto path is you lose half the amount of weight you wanted to lose. So you see a lot of 400 pound people who used to weigh 500 pounds. And they still weigh 400 pounds months later. Or in my case, I went from 300 to 250 pounds, but no matter what I did, no matter how much steak I ate, I couldn’t shed any more weight. So why is this? Keep reading to learn more about dirty keto, why it puts the brakes on weight loss, and why a clean keto diet like the Bulletproof Diet will help get you to the weight you want. 

Processed food makes you gain weight

I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again: All fats are not created equal, and the same goes for proteins. Eating an industrially-produced burger patty full of additives is very different to eating a grass-fed steak. Both may be proteins, but the similarity ends there. The processed burger patty is junk food, while the steak is whole food. Which one you choose will impact your weight (not to mention your mood and your sleep).

In one study, people were put on a diet of either processed or unprocessed foods. Both meal plans contained the same amount of calories, fat, protein, carbs, salt, fiber, and sugar. Participants could eat as much food as they wanted. After two weeks, those eating unprocessed whole foods lost two pounds, while those on the processed diet put on two pounds.

These results aren’t surprising, and here’s why: Packaged goods companies spend a lot of money on making their food taste so good that you want more of it. Processed foods also contain harmful additives and toxins that causes diet-induced inflammation. Guess what weighs as much as fat? Inflammation. When you’re on dirty keto, you’re carrying a lot of water and inflammation because your cells just aren’t working well. When cells don’t work well, they can’t pull sugar or ketones from your blood to turn them into energy that you use to breathe or think or do whatever it is you’re going to do.

Related: What’s Dirty Keto and Should You Be Doing It?

So how can you continue losing weight on the keto diet?

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Who would’ve thought that the type of protein or the type of fat that you’re eating are the reasons you might not be losing weight on keto? When I got all this dialed in, I came up with the Bulletproof Diet, a low-inflammation, cyclical ketosis diet, where you eat the right vegetables, the right proteins, the right fats, and every now and then, once a week, you eat some carbs. What happens is, your testosterone levels stay up, you feel really good, you get lean, and you have this boundless energy. As for the weight, you don’t hit that plateau where you still have that stubborn 30 pounds of weight that you cannot lose. No one likes that.

Here are some more tips if you’re not losing weight on keto:

  1. Try going out of ketosis now and then. It’s amazing what happens when your gut bacteria get some fiber from the right carbs like sweet potatoes and white rice. Learn more about cyclical ketosis here.
  2. Load up on vegetables. When you eat lots of vegetables — preferably organic — you lower inflammation and keep your gut thriving with a diversity of gut bacteria.
  3. Try a protein fast. You might not be losing weight because you’re simply eating too much protein. Did you know that protein raises insulin, which can lead to inflammation? To do a protein fast, stay below 15 grams of protein total on one day of the week. Learn more about protein fasting here.

When you try the clean keto approach, as outlined in the Bulletproof Diet, you’re going to throw away your fat pants. Because your weight is going to be where you want it to be, all the time, effortlessly. You’re not hungry and you don’t look at the cheesecake longingly. You just don’t care because you’re satisfied and full of energy. Now that’s living.

Read next: Diet Induced Inflammation: Why Dirty Keto Is Making You Miserable

 

 

Fast Fitness! 40 Seconds, 3 Times a Week – Lance Dalleck, Ph.D. – #657

In this episode of Bulletproof Radio, my guest is Lance Dalleck, Ph.D., a professor of Exercise and Sport Science at Western Colorado University in Gunnison, Colorado.

Lance’s research validates the science behind CAR.O.L. FIT AI, a game-changing exercise bike that delivers peak fitness in just 40 seconds. And you don’t even have to break a sweat.

He shares some interesting findings that support the effectiveness of high-intensity interval training on the CAR.O.L. bike, an AI-powered, interactive exercise bike with self-learning algorithms. CAR.O.L. stands for CARdiovascular Optimization Logic. You may remember that I talked with the CAR.O.L. FIT AI co-founders on episode #615 of Bulletproof Radio about how to hack your cardiovascular system with the CAR.O.L.

“With a 20-second sprint, you’re increasing your energy demand above rest substantially,” Lance says. “That’s a severe disruption to your homeostasis. And as a result of that, you’re putting in motion a variety of upregulation of metabolic pathways that allow you to provide energy that will regenerate ATP so that you can keep sprinting for 20 seconds. And the research is pretty clear that we’ve identified that minimum time that turns on these pathways, 20 seconds, two bouts a day, and that’s sufficient.”

Lance teaches in both the Exercise and Sport Science and High-Altitude Exercise Physiology programs. He researches primary and secondary prevention of chronic diseases through evidence-based interventions like exercise and nutrition and quantifies the energy expenditure of outdoor and non-traditional types of physical activity. His research into CAR.O.L. culminated in a paper published in the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health: “Reduced Exertion High-Intensity Interval Training is More Effective at Improving Cardiorespiratory Fitness and Cardiometabolic Health than Traditional Moderate-Intensity Continuous Training.”

Lance has published more than 100 peer-reviewed articles, delivered 30 conference proceedings, and written 10 book chapters. He is on the Scientific Advisory Panel for the American Council on Exercise.

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Bulletproof Radio: Cut Your Cardio To 9 Minutes – CAR.O.L FIT AI – #615

Key Notes

  • Why focus on high-altitude research? 00:05:05
  • The benefits of HIF1a and what it does in our bodies 00:06:10
  • How to get the benefits without sleeping in an altitude tent 00:08:20
  • When to use heat and exercise 00:09:20
  • How does CAR.O.L. FIT AI work and why does it work? 00:12:00
  • Why nine minutes instead of four? 00:15:05
  • What were the parameters of the testing? 00:17:05
  • Is there a benefit to exercising longer? 00:19:35
  • How CAR.O.L. uses AI to create a better workout 00:23:00
  • How this works, physiologically 00:25:05
  • More isn’t better, for AMPK 00:27:45
  • Caffeine and HIIT workouts 00:28:45
  • Can you build muscle with CAR.O.L.? 00:31:00
  • What’s the issue with commercial HIIT classes? 00:33:00
  • Exercise is inflammatory 00:39:20
  • Is overtraining a common issue? 00:40:15
  • The EPOC Phenomenon 00:44:15
  • What is the “wear and tear” of this type of workout? 0048:35
  • HIIT done properly doesn’t have a higher risk of cardiac events 00:50:45
  • What do people have wrong about exercise? 00:56:10

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Tap into Your Flow State for Enhanced Productivity and Happiness

Science suggests that chess players, ultra-marathon runners, and prolific artists have one thing in common. They repeatedly and consistently nail the flow state – that optimal experience known as “the zone” – where amazing feats become normal occurrences. The best-kept secrets of successful flow states are now backed by science, which demonstrate that you too can attain this sublime experience, even if you’re only vaguely familiar with it. Ahead, we reveal the best ways to achieve a flow state, according to thought leaders who’ve discussed the topic on Bulletproof Radio podcast episodes.

What is the flow state?

In a Bulletproof Radio (iTunes) podcast episode with Stella Grizont, Founder and CEO of WOOPAAH, a company dedicated to helping people and their companies thrive, she summarizes flow state as the experience of complete absorption in a particular endeavor. “True engagement is when we are so lost in the task at hand that we lose a sense of time and space. We even forget ourselves, our ego [and its] ruminations.”

University of Chicago psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, father of positive psychology, coined the term flow state. In the 1970s, Csikszentmihalyi initiated one of the largest psychological surveys ever, questioning countless people about the times in their life when they not only performed their best, but also felt amazing.

Csikszentmihalyi began with experts — chess players, surgeons, and dancers — then moved on to Italian farmers, Navajo sheepherders, Chicago assembly line workers, elderly Korean women, and Japanese teenage motorcycle gang members. After taking stock of everyone he spoke with from diverse walks of life, Csikszentmihalyi realized that all of these people felt their best and performed at their peak when they were in the “flow.”

As Steven Kotler, Co-founder and Director of Research for Flow Genome Project, reveals in this Bulletproof Radio (iTunes) podcast episode, anyone can tap into the flow state. “While flow is most traditionally associated with athletics being in the zone — runner’s high — it’s actually ubiquitous. It shows up in anyone, anywhere, provided certain initial conditions are met.”

8 characteristics of the flow state

Those initial conditions Kotler speaks of are the defining 8 characteristics of flow, which Csikszentmihalyi documents in his book, “Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience.” They are:

  1.     Complete concentration on a task
  2.     Clarity of goals, immediate feedback, and a reward in mind
  3.     Transformation of time (speeding up or slowing down of time)
  4.     Intrinsically rewarding experience – an end in-and-of itself
  5.     Effortlessness and ease
  6.     Balance between challenge and skills
  7.     Actions merge with awareness — a loss of self-conscious rumination
  8.     Feelings of control over the task

What happens to your brain in the flow state?

Neuroscientists at Bonn University in Germany initially discovered that when you enter the flow state, a cocktail of endorphins or feel-good hormones release into your bloodstream. Other researchers have since determined that the specific neurotransmitters norepinephrine, dopamine, anandamide, and serotonin are involved. These are pleasure-inducing and performance-enhancing neurochemicals that enhance your attention to detail, relax muscles, help problem-solve, and also help you feel good.[ref url=”https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/neuroscience/neurotransmitters”]

American University in Beirut neuroscientist Arne Dietrich theorized that there’s another process at play during the flow state, called transient hypofrontality — decreased activity in the prefrontal cortex, the portion of your brain responsible for higher cognitive functions like consciousness and memory. This temporary inactivation of the prefrontal cortex triggers a sense of time distortion, loss of your ego-based self-consciousness and inner-critic.[ref url=”https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1053810004000583?via%3Dihub”] When this occurs, Dietrich hypothesizes in “Introduction to Consciousness,” it’s likely that other brain areas free up to communicate in creative processes.

What are the benefits of the flow state?

The combination of neurobiological effects on the brain during the flow state offers you myriad benefits, including: greater creativity, increased productivity, accelerated learning, ability to overcome fears, improved athletic performance, better sleep, and enhanced happiness.

Greater creativity

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In this Bulletproof Radio (iTunes) podcast episode, Steven Kotler remarks on the amazing benefits of flow state on creativity. “In our studies at the Flow Genome Project, people are reporting a 500% to 700% boost in creativity in flow.” Research underscores the value of flow state for performance jazz musicians.[ref url=”https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fnhum.2015.00518/full”] Another study reveals how art therapists facilitate personal growth by helping individuals enter and maintain a state of flow in their art making.[ref url=”https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/07421656.2013.787211″]

Increased productivity and accelerated learning

mucuna pruriens benefitsIn this Bulletproof Radio (iTunes) podcast episode, Executive Director of Flow Genome Project, Jamie Wheal demonstrates how the flow state accelerates learning. “The more neurochemicals [you experience] during a [flow state], the better chance that experience moves from short-term to long-term [memory]. The neurochemical firing you experience during flow state cements [details in your brain] automatically… For example, studies run by the U.S. military and Advanced Brain Monitoring figured out that snipers in flow learn 200% to 500% faster than normal.”

Overcoming fear

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Whether you’d like to overcome a fear of public speaking or skydiving off a cliff, Kotler reveals how the flow state can help you by subbing one form of fear for another. “Your brain cannot tell the difference between social fear and physical fear. They’re processed by the exact same structures in the brain.” If you can overcome one, you can overcome the other – all you need is the flow state. Kotler and Wheal created an experiential playground called flow dojo. When you enter it, a perceived physical fear triggers you in the form of a challenge. This prompts you to become completely immersed in the experience. “You get kicked into the flow as a result of these triggers,” says Kotler. You then work through the challenge to overcome your initial fear. The more comfortable you get in your flow state, the more adept you become at overcoming other fears as well, says Kotler.

To that end, in this Bulletproof Radio (iTunes) podcast episode, BMX superstar and brain tumor survivor Josh Perry credits the trust and intuition he feels in the flow state as keys to his successful risk-taking on the bike. “What we [bikers] do in a matter of two seconds – we are upside down, spinning our bike, twisting — it just happens and you have to trust it. Trust is something you feel [in the flow state], and that’s where the intuition comes in. You can feel it [being in the flow state]. You do it long enough — you practice long enough – it’s just like meditation.”

Improved athletic performance

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Mindfulness-based flow states are linked to improved athletic performance.[ref url=”http://researchdirect.uws.edu.au/islandora/object/uws:20202″] Amanda Allen, a cross-fit champion, spoke about the benefits of flow state on her athletic performance in this Bulletproof Radio (iTunes) podcast episode; specifically the practice of mindful breathing in a flow state as a means to establish a peak-performing rhythm. “It’s a meditative state…My breath, and the next count, and the next movement, and my breath, and the next count, and the next movement. That is all a meditation.”

Better sleep

While there’s less research pointing to better sleep as a benefit of flow state, Jason Silva swears by it in this recent Bulletproof Radio (iTunes) podcast episode. Silva, Emmy nominated host of National Geographic’s BrainGames — whose mind used to race at night with thoughts of the previous day — learned how to tap into the flow state. “Now sleep happens in under three minutes for me every single night.”

Enhanced happiness

Csikszentmihalyi points out in “Flow” that the flow state results in happiness because it’s under our control as an internal experience. In this case, happiness is not based on external rewards, gifts, or other people’s opinions.

In this Bulletproof Radio (iTunes) podcast episode, Grizont agrees. She perceives gratitude practices – i.e., journaling 10 things you are grateful for each morning — to be the gateway to the flow state. “If you practice enough gratitude, it opens you up on the continuum of positivity becoming easier and easier to access.” Therefore, gratitude begets happiness; which begets more gratitude and so on. Other research reveals the same interconnectivity between happiness and flow state in mountain climbers.[ref url=”https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1002/jtr.1881″]

3 ways to tap into your flow state

Getting into the flow states is a skill, and there are specific practices that will help you to attain it. The more you practice any of the methods below – the more you achieve your own flow state – the more equipped you will be to enter it at whim. Here are three demonstrated ways to get into flow:

Meditation: Meditation helps you tap into your own inner stillness. Regardless what thoughts arise when you sit still, meditation teaches you to observe them from a detached perspective. Meditation also increases creativity[ref url=”https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/10400410902858691″], curbs stress and anxiety, and increases happiness.[ref url=”https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamainternalmedicine/fullarticle/1809754″] Here is a simple technique you can use to ease your way into the flow state through meditation:

Observation Meditation: Find a peaceful and quiet place to sit. Cross your legs and plant your tailbone into the ground. Truly root yourself into the earth. Close your eyes and allow your breath to settle. Consciously inhale and exhale until your breath finds its own comfortable rhythm. Become the observer of your own inner terrain. Notice thoughts arise and watch them go like clouds in the sky. No need to judge or dwell on them. They are just thoughts. As you do this exercise, you’ll notice that the thoughts in your mind are not you; they are simply passing through you. Allow yourself to fully be in this state for 10-20 minutes. The more you do this meditation, the more “attached” you’ll become to being the observer in a safe and special place.

Heart Rate Variability (HRV) Training: A technique that teaches you to consciously synchronize your brainwaves and heartbeat, this HRV method helps you to attain a calm focus. Like meditation, HRV guides you into your own flow state; though HRV differs from meditation, as you get real-time feedback through an HRV sensor. HRV is particularly helpful for the flow state because it provides a balance between challenge and skill and there’s always room for improvement. Plus, you can track your progress.

Sensory deprivation: According to Taoist traditions, the flow state is inextricably linked to water. Float tanks, also called sensory deprivation tanks, might be the closest you can get to that primitive flow in the fluidity of water. In a float tank, you’re suspended in a light-proof, soundproof chamber (like a big bathtub) with more than 1,000 pounds of magnesium salt. You float free of sensory input, effortlessly, without touching anything. In fact, both water and air temperature mimic standard body temperature. In this way, your senses are completely deprived of any distracting stimuli. This allows your mind to go within.

At first, you may notice thoughts like “This is dumb, boring, and uncomfortable.” However, after a short period of time, your mind starts to flow with the water and let go. Floating is known to enhance creativity[ref url=”https://mmd.iammonline.com/index.php/musmed/article/view/MMD-2011-3-4-4″], which is indicative that you’ve entered the flow state.

For more information on these three techniques, read The Biohacker’s Guide to Meditation and Flow States.

Create your own flow state

 

You can also create your own flow scenario if that suits you more than the above techniques. Follow these guidelines below to set yourself up for success:

  1.     Create a flow state around something you love to do. Pursuing a passion is a good first step to getting into a flow state, advises Kotler. “Anything that grabs and holds your attention deeply, go in that direction. You’re liable to find flow there.” If you don’t know what they might be, check out the Flow Genome Project and take a free flow profile, which directs you toward your intrinsic life passions.
  2.     Review 8 characteristics of the flow state above. Pull out a journal and jot down notes: What are your goals for the flow session? What skills will you use? What challenges you will face? How you will measure your process? Put these notes aside when you enter your flow state. Then review them in a month to review how you are progressing.
  3.     Ritualize your passion into flow time. Set aside a specific amount of time to dive into your passion. Just as you schedule time for daily meditation, yoga, or a run, commit to your flow state in the same way. Set an alarm to ensure you have a chunk of uninterrupted time – 30-60 minutes at least twice a week – to practice a flow of your liking.
  4.     Breathe for better flow. Wheal perceives breath-work to be a flow state foundation: “Most of us forget to breathe and forget to breathe fully. Any time you’re finding yourself in a struggle situation or a tense or stressful situation, return to your breathing for relaxed air exchange.” Regardless of the activity you choose to do, you’ll need to breathe through it. Practice full belly breaths, and use them as a gateway into greater connection with what you are doing. In other words, experience your passion through your breath.
  5.     Practice makes perfect flow. The best athletes and artists in the world continuously reach peak performance because they’ve internalized the flow state. It’s second nature for them, and with a bit of practice, it can be for you too. Stick with it and maybe even team up with a friend to get into the flow state together – especially if you share a common passion. Be it helicopter skiing or poetry slams, the world is a stage, and everyone’s a performer when it comes to good flow.

 

Unite Mind & Body to Achieve Health & Healing – Dr. Andrew Weil – #656

This episode of Bulletproof Radio was recorded live with Dr. Andrew Weil at True Food Kitchen in Phoenix, Arizona.

Dr. Weil is an internationally known pioneer and leader in integrative medicine. He is a recognized expert for his views on living a healthy lifestyle, his philosophy of healthy aging, and his critique of the future of medicine and health care.

“I am absolutely convinced that the mind and body are one thing, they’re not separable,” he says. “And that one of the greatest limitations of modern medicine is that it sees the mind and body as separate. And if it recognizes the mind at all, it doesn’t admit that it can influence the body.”

A Harvard-trained medical doctor, he is the founder and director of the Andrew Weil Center for Integrative Medicine at the University of Arizona. The Center is the leading effort in the world to develop a comprehensive curriculum in integrative medicine. He champions the use of medicinal plants and alternative medicine, as well as the reform of medical education.

Dr. Weil also is a clinical professor of medicine and a professor of Public Health at the University of Arizona and the author of more than a dozen books on health, wellness and optimal living.

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Key Notes

  • What got Dr. Weil thinking this way 00:03:10
  • Why health care separates the mind from the body 00:04:20
  • Our wrong-headed attitudes around the placebo effect 00:05:05
  • Getting new patients to focus on mindset 00:06:30
  • We should have a national registry of remission 00:10:45
  • Why fighting something actually gives it more power 00:13:20
  • How can we change the societal view of older people? 00:19:15
  • A doctor who places emphasis on breathing 00:20:45
  • 4-7-8 breathing 00:23:18
  • Dr. Weil’s story about mangos 00:25:45
  • The role of sugar in the world 00:27:00
  • The mindset that leads to finding things 00:29:35
  • “Coincidence is the label on the mental wastebasket” 00:33:45
  • What percentage of the human body do we actually understand? 00:35:00
  • Are things moving in the right direction in medicine? 00:38:55
  • Why grass-finished is better than grass-fed 00:41:40
  • “Name any food and I can tell you why you shouldn’t eat it” 00:44:50
  • Why “eat everything” is a good idea 00:46:00
  • It is possible that high mercury in adults has no significance 00:48:00
  • Dr. Weil’s take on salt 00:51:20
  • The dangers of being too lean 00:54:05
  • The wonders of matcha 01:00:25

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How to Set Goals and Actually Achieve Them

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  • Only eight percent of people stick to their goals; the other 92 percent give up. There’s a key difference between the two groups: the people who succeed know how to set good goals.
  • A good goal has to have several things: a deep purpose behind it, clear-cut parameters for success, and diversified meaning that makes it easier to handle failure.
  • This article covers how to set goals for yourself that you’ll actually keep.

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Here’s a little money-saving hack: if you want a good deal on a gym membership, join in January.

Any gym owner will tell you that January is their most lucrative month of the year. Gyms offer discounts and run marketing campaigns, and pretty soon new members come flooding in, all intent on sticking to their New Year’s resolution: to get in shape.

Getting fit is a worthwhile resolution. But that same gym owner will tell you that by February, every year, the newcomers have stopped showing up. Only eight percent of people stick to their New Year’s resolutions.[ref url=”https://www.statisticbrain.com/new-years-resolution-statistics/”] For the rest, excitement wanes, motivation runs out, and it’s back to the couch instead of the gym.

Reaching your goals takes work

What sets the successful people apart? What does it take to be in the eight percent of people who succeed at their goals, instead of in the 92 percent who don’t?

It’s a good question. There are a few reasons people fail at their goals. In his recent Bulletproof Radio podcast episode [iTunes], high performance coach Brendon Burchard talks about what it takes to set your mind to something and actually achieve it.

“You have to ask, ‘who do I have to become to achieve the purpose I want?’” Burchard says. 

Burchard acknowledges what a lot of motivational coaches don’t: reaching your goals is hard work. It requires doing things you don’t want to do. That’s why 92 percent of people who set New Year’s resolutions fail — your motivation runs out sooner or later, and when it does, you have to dig deep to stay committed to your goals.

Most people give up when faced with hard work, or they overcommit and burn themselves out because they don’t think long-term. It’s a shame, because research shows that working hard (and sustainably) toward a goal that truly matters to you is one of the best ways to enrich your life.

With a little guidance and the right mindset, you can set meaningful goals and actually achieve them. Here’s how to set good goals, pursue them properly, and make it into the eight percent of people who stick to their New Year’s resolutions.

Create purpose, don’t search for it

If a goal is worthwhile, it’s going to be difficult to reach it. You’re going to struggle, fail, learn, and work hard, and by the time you achieve your goal, you’ll be a quantifiably stronger person than you were when you started.

But in order to weather all the hard work and failure along the way, your goal has to really mean something to you.

The good news is that you get to decide on that meaning. The second law of success in Bulletproof Founder Dave Asprey’s new book “Game Changers: What Leaders, Innovators, and Mavericks Do to Win at Life” is “Never Discover Who You Are.” Instead of trying to discover who you are, decide on who you want to be, and actively create that person. If you let others tell you who you should be, you’ll never have a real sense of meaning in life, and you’ll struggle with feelings of mediocrity and creeping misery.

Meaning in life isn’t something you find, it’s something you create, and if your goals aren’t imbued with meaning, you won’t want them badly enough to stick with them through hard times.

If you want to lose 40 pounds to get abs, for example, you probably won’t make it. How you look is superficial. But if you want to lose 40 pounds so you can be fit enough to play with your kids and be alive when they’re in their twenties, you’re much more likely to stay committed to that fat loss.

Identify a purpose that drives your goals. Make it something that really matters to you at a deep level. Get as specific as possible, and write it down somewhere. Purpose is what will keep you going on the path to success.

You’ll also be happier when you’re working toward something that really matters. Overcoming obstacles in pursuit of something valuable gives your life meaning, which leads to a deep sense of fulfillment.[ref url=”https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3149846/”] Figuring out challenges also shows you that you’re stronger than you thought, which builds resilience.[ref url=”https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3132556/”]

So pick something you really want and that carries deep importance to you. That’s what you’ll structure your goals around.

How to set good goals for yourself (and actually achieve them)

Once you’ve chosen a purpose-driven goal, it’s time to figure out how to achieve it on a practical level. You want to set clear parameters for success when it comes to your goal. That way you’ll know exactly when you succeed and exactly when you fail, and you can figure out where you’re falling short and correct it.

A lot of people don’t get specific with their goals. It’s understandable — if you don’t define failure, you’ll never have to acknowledge when you’re failing. But being able to identify your shortcomings is crucial to success, and in order to do that, you have to be practical and specific with your goals.

Let’s continue with the example from before. You want to be a better parent to your kids, and right now you’re too overweight to run around with them without getting winded. What would success look like? Write out the parameters:

  • Lose 10 percent body fat
  • Play ball with your kids for an hour, four times a week
  • Be able to run a mile in under eight minutes

You’ll notice that all these parameters for success are quantifiable. There’s no room for interpretation; either you run a mile in eight minutes or you don’t. Either you’re fit enough to play with your kids for an hour, or you aren’t.

Set specific, practical goals with clear parameters for success. You have to know, unambiguously, when you’re succeeding and when you’re failing.

The next step is to set a timeline for your goals. Maybe you aim to lose one percent body fat per week, or start by playing ball with your kids once a week and work up to four times a week in the next six months. Set a clear schedule, and make it challenging enough that you fail 20-40 percent of the time. That failure means you’re pushing your limits. Aim to reduce the amount that you fail, week by week.

To summarize, your goals should have:

  • A purpose driving theme
  • Practical, quantifiable criteria for success
  • A timeline that challenges you so you fail 20-40 percent of the time

Keep track of your progress in a journal or a free habit tracking app like Way Of Life. You want to have data that shows you how you’re doing.

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket

You’re going to fail on the way to your goals. It’s an inevitable part of growth. Failure is important feedback. It tells you when you’re falling short and offers an opportunity to examine yourself, figure out what you’re not doing well, and correct it.

Failure also sucks. It’s painful to find out that you’re not good at something, and it takes humility to accept your shortcomings and work to correct them. Most people try to avoid failure, which is a fool’s errand; instead, make yourself more resilient to failure by having several goals at once.

Having multiple goals diversifies the meaning in your life. Maybe you fall short on goal A one day, but you do a great job at goals B and C. That makes goal A’s failure less devastating, and allows you to figure out why you fell short and correct it instead of being overwhelmed by your failure.

Set three or four goals for yourself at a time. More than four can be overwhelming and decreases the value of each goal. Fewer than three means you’re too invested in each goal, and when you inevitably fail, you’re more likely to feel crushed and give up.

Use these tools to set good goals for yourself. Get clear on what you really want, and why, and how you’re going go get it. Instill a sense of purpose in your life, then work hard to achieve it. You might be surprised by what you can do.

 

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